Aik Aurat Ka Mustaqbil

darmiyani tabqay se talluq rakhnay wali larkiyan shadi karne ke ya aik career talaash karne ke baray mein peda honay walay din se sochna shuru hojati hain. yeh aik saada sawal hai jis ka har nojawan larki ko saamna hai. un larkiyon ko career ke bananay ke husool mein aik barray saudey ka shikaar hona parta hai. kam Umri ki shadi ki Pakistani riwayat samaji dabao ki haamil hai jis se larkiyon ko apni taleem ko jari rakhnay se roknay, aur qudrati tor par un ki pesha warana zindagi ki taraf rujoo ke darmiyan haail rukawat hai .
darasal, 21 feesad larkiyon ki is waqt shadi ki jati hai jab woh athaara baras ki ho jati hain aur teen feesad ki Umar 15 saal ki Umar mein shadi hojati hai. aik larki ke liye sab se ahem lamha yeh hai jab woh high school se grijoyshn karti hai. yeh ghair yakeeni hai ke aik larki ki family pesha warana degree haasil karne mein is ke khowaboon ki himayat karen ge. jo larkiyan shadi karne ke nuqta nazar se ittafaq karti hain, jab bhi avrj_han bhi un ke walidain un ki shadi karna chahtay hain, to woh itaat pasand baityon ke tor par label ki jati hain .
aayiyae ghhor karte hain mazkoorah baala tajweez ko jhutlao to kya hoga .

is tanazur mein dekhen jab larki apni shadi se pehlay –apne jazba aur mutalea ki pairwi karne ka intikhab karti hai, to usay badnaam ya bad qismati ke tor par label kya jata hai .

jab doosri nojawan larkiyan is ke liye aik muaqqaf lena shuru hoti hain to, society un ke baray mein jaisay’ ghair janabdaar’ sochti hai. agar khandan is koshish ki hosla afzai nahi karte hain aur maali akhrajaat bardasht karne se inkaar nahi karte hain to, larki ko is ke mustaqbil ke maqasid ko poora karne ke liye kisi jagah se naqad raqam ka intizam karna parta .
shadion ke liye paisa qarz lena yeh qabil qubool hai .
taham yeh qabil qubool nahi samjha jata hai jab khandan –apne bachon ki taleem ke لۓ paisa qarz lena chahtay hain. kuch afraad aisi khawateen ke baray mein baat ya tabsarah karte hain ke inhen –apne aap ko taleem dainay aur –apne career ka peecha karne ke is” boojh” ko bardasht nahi karna chahiye. inhen yeh jan-nay ki zaroorat hai ke aisi khwahisaat ghair mamooli nahi hain, aur yeh haqeeqi duniya mein, is ki taleem is ki shadi se kahin ziyada shumaar hogi .
kon log sochte hain ke woh is ke khowaboon ko nazar andaaz karte hue aik aurat ko qatal karte hain? aik aurat ka mustaqbil sirf aik cholha ke samnay khara hona aur ghar ke kaam karna nahi hai. usay bonus miyaar ko poora karne ki zaroorat hai, kuch ghair mamooli. kkhuda ne aurton mein khoobi peda ki hai jis mein inhen kisi bhi shobay mein khilnay ki ijazat miley gi jis mein woh shaamil honay ki khwahan hain, chahay woh aik sarkari Afsar , aik fankar, aik tajzia car, ya dr hi kyun nah ho .
hamein yeh samjhna hoga ke agar aurat ko apnay khowaboon ke liye kisi cheez ko poora karne ki zaroorat hoti hai, to usay is ke khowaboon ka peecha karne ki mukammal azadi hona zaroori hai. woh nah hi’ ghair janabdaar’ aur’ sharamnaak’ hain. khawateen hamaray samaji tane banay ki haqeeqi maahir tameeraat hain. hamein –apne muashray ko azad karne ke liye apni khawateen ko baakhtyar bananay ki zaroorat hai

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